“Resentment and gratitude cannot coexist, since resentment blocks the perception and experience of life as a gift. My resentment tells me that I don’t receive what I deserve. It always manifests itself in envy.”
― Henri J.M. Nouwen, The Return of the Prodigal Son: A Story of Homecoming
A HALF CUP OF INSPIRATION WITH FR. TAT:
While he was still a long way off, his father caught sight of him, and was filled with compassion. He ran to his son, embraced him and kissed him. (Luke 15:1-32)
When was the last time you felt the love of your own father or mother or your God like the merciful father in the parable this week? The father was waiting and longing to see his youngest son to come back. He might sit outside and imagine the image of the son to return “home.” It seemed that he could not live with out his son. He patiently waited and prayed for his own son to unite with the family.
If you are a parent, when was the last time you longed and prayed for your own child to come home with you? This question touches many hearts of parents. During the discussion of the group “The Word of God”, one person was touched by the question raised: What do wish to do to finish your project of your life here on earth? She thought and shared, “I wish and pray that all my children and grandchildren will be guided by God to stay away from all temptations and to go to church.” She shared in mixed tears of joy and fear.
Our God is the Good God, who always forgives us and loves us no matter what we did. In the parable, the father did not waste a second to ask his youngest son what he did with his money and time. “He ran to his son, embraced him and kissed him.”God is merciful, compassionate and forgiving. It depends on us to stand up, trust and return to our loving God or not.
I wish and pray that the Church also immitates from God to be able to open our hearts to embrace all types of people no matter what they said or did in public polictically and relationally. Let us overcome our own moral, devotional and legal prejudices in order to welcome and reconcile one another in our country, community and family.
– Fr. Tat Hoang, C.Ss.R.